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Aug 28Liked by William Spivey

I’m not tall, but I am a Black American man. I know very well what you wrote about here, Mr. Spivey; I’ve dealt with making white people feel safe around me for most of my 81 years (so far!). I learned how to be non-threatening around the time I reached puberty. Even in Philadelphia, it was better to seem “safe” than to risk not being perceived that way. It gets really tiresome sometimes. Thanks for sharing this with us.

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Mr Spivey, I genuinely love the way you tell a story.

You have done something that I didn't think was needed but it was for me at least. You have made "Black History" into "our American History." Thank you.

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What a terrific story. The basketball picture is quite wonderful especially the tall kid in the back. One of the players in the front row, #9, looks a lot like Steve Nash. You were fortunate to live where you did, have a grandmother who took you to church, have your intellect and a bit of shyness.

I so wish people didn't fear tall large black men. I had many friends who fit that category when I lived in the Bay Area. They were my friends, even my protectors when necessary. And some of the sweetest and kindest people I have ever known.

Thank you for sharing your story. Best to you, your son & family.❤️

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Wonderful pictures William! My wife says "He's really good looking".

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Great content, Mr. Spivey! So glad to have come across your work. Thank you!

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Great memoir. If I had been as tall as you, I would've been an All-American, but alas I was only 5-3 ...

: ) I went to St. Bonaventure while Bob Lanier was there. Wow, big Bob who turned out to be a gentle giant was pretty fearsome when he arrived on campus during his freshman year. But you know the rest of the story.

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It's very nice to meet you William Spivey!

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I’m the short guy with the mutton chops!

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